Those questions and anxieties that have plagued you your whole life are reflections of a mystery.

So the recurrent thought, “I’m Unlovable” might contain the Mystery of Love, and what it means to love and be loved.

The recurrent thought, “I’m Not As Good As I Should Be” points to the Mystery of Good (what is it? how do we know?) and the Mystery of Should.

And the thought, “I Don’t Belong” might indicate an interest in both the Mystery of “I” and the Mystery of Belonging. (This is one of my personal favorites.)

Instead of fighting, running, ignoring or defying those troubling thoughts, why not just sit with it?

What does the question mean?
Where do you see this question reflected in the culture?
Where is the center or middle of the Mystery?
When have you felt truly on top of this Mystery?
How has your life’s work brought you deeper into this Mystery?

No right answers here…just an opportunity to sit with it.