It’s really hard to ask for what you want in sexuality and relationships if you don’t know what to ask for, or how to start the conversation.
In our sex-negative culture, what would it mean to express your authentic sexual voice?
Many people don’t know how to talk about sexuality because they have no idea what they want.
Many don’t know how to have a conversation with others because they are so confused in their conversation with themselves, stuck in self-judgment, confusion, frustration or thinking something is wrong.
My friend and colleague Amy Jo Goddard does amazing work as a sexual empowerment expert and teacher and she is hosting this webinar on 2/24 on “Finding the Sexual Voice”.
We all have a sexual voice. Some of us need to find it, some of us need to express it, some of us need to shift it so we can get more of what we want and less of what we don’t.
In this 90-min webinar, you will learn:
- the difference between the internal and external sexual voice…
- the top sexual stories that get people stuck…
- what gets in the way of finding your true voice and inner “Yes”…
- steps you can take to tap into that inner Yes…
- how to bring your inner Yes into the outer world so you can get more of what you want in sex and relationships…
I support her message and I hope you will sign up and share.
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It’s hard to talk about sexuality when you don’t know what you want. @AmyJoGoddard’s webinar on 2/24:
My friend & colleague @AmyJoGoddard is teaching this webinar on 2/24: Finding the #SexualVoice
.@amyjogoddard is on a mission to banish sexual voicelessness — please join!
Fishing for trout is like having a career in the arts.
Why?
Because while good equipment can help, it’s no guarantee that you’ll catch anything.
And just because you caught something yesterday doesn’t ensure that you’ll do it again today.
Or ever.
Amateurs can often do just as well as pros, and children can often beat them both.
And in the end, if you are going to fish, the reward mustn’t be the fish, or even the promise of fish.
The reward must be found in the process of standing on the shore in all kinds of weather, loving each cast.
As a special treat, we’ve made you this super-fun 2-minute movie that’s all about how to slay the dragon of your procrastination : )
Please share it with your family, friends, kids, colleagues, and social media buddies.
There’s nothing to sign up for or register — it’s just a gift designed to stimulate your creativity and have a little fun.
With wishes for a joyful, creative Thanksgiving to all our US friends and a big kiss for everyone else —
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An easy, fun, creative exercise designed to get you unstuck!
Video credit: ShayGrabowski.com
We all have our family of origin, and then we have our family of friends.
It ’s one of the great perks of adulthood — you get to pick a second family of friends who love you.
While it ’s likely that both these families love you and care about you and want the best for you, you may have noticed that most of them neither know nor care much about your work.
They don’t understand what you do. They don’t understand why you do it. It probably even seems kind of crazy to them.
That ’s okay.
Your family is in your life to love and support you as a person — they are not here to be your audience, your clients, or your critics.
Do not expect anyone to have any understanding of what you do or why. After all, do you understand why firefighters actually choose to run into burning buildings?
Or why neurosurgeons elect to put their hands inside someone ’s brain? Of course not. We ’re just damn grateful they do.
Same with art. People who are not artists haven’t got the faintest idea what it’s like to be you.
And people who aren’t parents can’t really know what it’s like to have kids, and people who’ve never suffered from depression can’t imagine how bleak life can seem —
you see where I’m going with this?
So if your family bums you out by saying ignorant or disparaging things about your work, just keep your head down and your shields up and change the subject.
You’re stuck because you think you know what you don’t know.
But you don’t.
Because you’ve never done This before.
You think you know how your project is going to unfold, and I’m here to tell you that you don’t.
You think you know how much people will pay for your product or service, and you don’t.
You think you know how much work your project will be for you, and you don’t.
You think you know how your project will be received, and you don’t.
All these things you think you know (but don’t) are keeping you from moving forward.
Think back to your own experience – every single project you have ever done for the first time has grown and stretched and changed and evolved as you’ve worked on it, right?
So let’s pretend you are an absolute beginner, and enter this project with a spirit of joyful exploration.
