Lighten Up & Get Rich Quick

Lighten Up & Get Rich Quick

— a limited series about unconventional economics —

I made a special (short) video just for coaches, healers, practitioners, body workers, teachers and therapists…

You know the world needs your good work.

Isn’t it time you found a lighter, easier way to think about getting paid for the work you love?

Yours,

“And the money has hit my account! I was able to walk my very first coaching client through her objections and got her to yes. Amazing. I just followed Sam’s script which removed 97% of the anxiety!! Thanks Samantha Bennett!” – M.C., current member of Sam’s Pro Club

How to Price Your Goods & Services

How to Price Your Goods & Services

— a limited series about unconventional economics —

“I chicken out when it comes to stating my price.”

“I tried to raise my prices, but then people say they can’t afford it.”

“I know my work is worth a bundle – but really – no one would pay me that much.”

 

Luckily, these common misconceptions are easy (and fun!) to fix.

 

EASY ACTION STEP:

“I chicken out when it comes to stating my price.”

This is not an economic issue.

This is a courage issue.

Pretend that you charge ten times more than you currently do, and say that number out loud ten times in a row. So if you’ve been charging $100, you might say, “I charge $1000….How much do I charge? Oh, it’s just $1000…..If you want what I do, it’s $1000….I only charge $1000….I get $1000 for what I do….” etc. Do this 10 times a day for 10 days in a row and see how your mindset, your beliefs and your actions begin to shift.

“I tried to raise my prices, but then people say they can’t afford it.”

This is not a sign that your prices are too high. In fact, it’s probably a sign that your prices are too low, because your people are not understanding the VALUE of what you do.

Think of a customer story (real or imagined) that conveys the true value of what you do. Think of the deeper, ongoing results people get from your work.

(Obviously, if it’s an imagined story, you don’t want to present it as real, but you can say, “My work affects everyone differently, but my hope is that people get results like X, Y and Z….”)

For example, “I gave this client a series of 10 massages, and she told me she was feeling so calm and centered that she and her teenage daughter were actually having real conversations again! Imagine how much it’s worth to her to heal that relationship…”

Or, “This client bought some of my art to display in her office, and not only does she feel inspired every time she looks at it, her new assistant said she knew the job was right for her when she saw that piece. Imagine how much it’s worth to have the perfect assistant…”

“I know my work is worth a bundle – but no one will pay me that much.”

Usually when people say that to me, what they are really saying is, “I wouldn’t pay me that much.” Which is true.

You wouldn’t pay that much for what you do, because you don’t have your customer’s problem.

You, my dear, are not your ideal client.

I also hear this is when people have been trying to market to their friends and family.

Your friends and family are not your ideal clients, either.

Spend 5 minutes dreaming up a mental picture of your ideal client. Imagine how old they are, the house they live in, the clothes they like, the tv shows they watch. Imagine how much money they have already spent trying to solve the problem that you can fix for them. Imagine that they are looking for you right now.

Use that daydream to inspire one action you could take to find that person in real life.

 

Try one of these and let me know how it goes, OK?

Yours,

P.S. This post is part of a limited series exploring the world of business for artists, healers, writers, coaches, creatives, and anyone who thinks they can’t make money doing what they love.

P.P.S. Here’s what I know for sure: taking baby steps like this is the way to grow into your prosperous, sustainable life. Even just 15 minutes a day can take you there. But you’re going to need a supportive community, some solid training in entrepreneurial concepts and some good advice (both practical and spiritual) from someone who’s done it already.

And that’s what Sam’s Pro Club is all about – and you can get started for just $12.32/day (annual subscription).  Check it out here – S.

 

“I told [this famous publisher] about my book idea and your suggestion to use the prompts in an email series. In the middle of describing this, he interrupted to say he wants to publish THAT book. I almost fell off my chair. I’m both over the moon and hyperventilating. And sooooooo motivated! Just had to share the news and share my gratitude. In large part, thanks to you and all I’ve learned from you, I know I can make all of this – and more – happen.” – B.J., recent alumni of Sam’s Pro Club

Hey, you – don’t get a j-o-b!

Hey, you – don’t get a j-o-b!

– a limited series about unconventional economics –

All you have ever wanted to do was to help people.

You have an innate gift for working with people’s bodies and minds.

This healing work is so easy for you, you kinda feel bad charging for it.

And you could get a j-o-b…

Except that the same sensitivity that makes you such an excellent healer also makes it very difficult for you to sit under fluorescent lights, deal with toxic environments or endure busy work.

So, what’s a smart cookie like you to do?

The first step is to stop devaluing your abilities.

The second step is to realize that there are nice people will happily pay you for your work.

This is both harder and easier than it sounds.

EASY ACTION STEP:

Make a quick list of the skills you have, the way they help and the people who might need that.

For example:

A SKILL I have is: listening

This HELPS: people to hear & know their own truth

A PERSON who might need this is: someone who is in a transition point in their lives (graduating, changing careers, empty nester…)

Another SKILL I have is: sound healing

This HELPS: people relax and feel good without drugs

A PERSON who might need this is: recovering addicts who need a healthy way to de-stress; people who want to relax but don’t like massage

Another SKILL I have is: reiki

This HELPS: calm the mind and improve energetic flow; encourage the body’s natural healing

A PERSON who might need this is: someone who feels like they’ve tried everything & still doesn’t feel well

See – this isn’t too hard, now is it? It’s even kinda fun.

Guess what – this SKILL/HELPS/PERSON structure is the beginning of what they call a business plan.

(And here you thought a business plan had to be some big, long, complicated document with graphs and stuff. Nope.)

I love making this stuff easy.

Yours,

P.S. This post is part of a limited series exploring the world of business for artists, healers, writers, coaches, creatives, and anyone who thinks they can’t make money doing what they love.

P.P.S. Here’s what I know for sure: taking baby steps like this is the way to grow into your prosperous, sustainable life. Even just 15 minutes a day can take you there. But you’re going to need a supportive community, some solid training in entrepreneurial concepts and some good advice (both practical and spiritual) from someone who’s done it already.

And that’s what Sam’s Pro Club is all about – and you can get started for just $12.32/day (annual subscription).  Check it out here – S.

“And the money has hit my account! I was able to walk my very first coaching client through her objections and got her to yes. Amazing. I just followed Sam’s script which removed 97% of the anxiety!! Thanks Samantha Bennett!” – M.C., current member of Sam’s Pro Club

Getting Out of the Urgency Trap

Getting Out of the Urgency Trap

Chapter 21 – Getting Out of the Urgency Trap

Your email pings. Your message app pings. Your other message app pings. You’ve got forty-seven notifications and thirteen new requests and an overflowing inbox. It all seems urgent. After all, it pinged. That must mean it’s important.

Your brain is hard-wired to respond to immediate stimulus. This is another survival mechanism. Anything that sounds like “Alert! Something is happening!” gives us a little hit of adrenaline, whether it’s a rustle in the bush that indicates a hungry tiger is nearby or a text from the spouse reminding you to get milk on your way home.

Correspondingly, our brain releases a hit of the “feel-good” chemical dopamine each time we feel a sense of achievement, even if that achievement is simply texting back, “Yes. Milk. Love you.” As Simon Sinek explains in his brilliant book Leaders Eat Last, we can get addicted to the cycle of doing and doing and doing, and we fail to notice that nothing is actually getting done.

We get addicted to the cycle of doing and doing and doing, and we fail to notice that nothing is actually getting done.

Bringing just a bit of mindfulness to your daily movements can help a lot. One way to check in with yourself is to play the Because/Because game.

The Because/Because game asks you to pause for one moment before you begin an activity and ask why you are doing what you’re doing and why you’re the person doing it.

So, in the moment before you start catching up with the bookkeeping for your side hustle, you might have this conversation with yourself: “Why am I doing this bookkeeping? Because it’s important to me that I know whether this side business is really profitable. Why am I the one doing this? Because even though I dislike doing these kinds of detail-oriented tasks, I’m the only employee.” Now, this awareness might not lead you to hire an assistant immediately, but once you’ve had this conversation with yourself five times in a week, you might start to see the value of getting some help.

On the other hand, if you find yourself dreading a visit to Sad Susan, your friend who just ended yet another disastrous love affair, you might hear yourself thinking, “Why am I going to see Susan? Because she needs a shoulder to cry on. Why am I the one doing this? Because even though Susan’s love life is a non-stop soap opera, I care deeply about her happiness.” Remembering your true motivation can put a smile back on your face as you stop off along the way for the margarita mix and ice cream.

Little Changes Action Step: Put a few of your least favorite activities through the Because/Because game. Are there any that you could you eliminate from your life today?

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Minimum Daily Requirement

The good news… this quick tip will help you with any project or goal you are interested in starting or completing.

Now find the tension between you and your goal and get started today!

Chapter 14 – Minimum Daily Requirement

Now, I love home-remodeling shows, but I also believe that we are naturally inclined toward productivity. We love to be learning, doing, and playing. We love to stretch and grow and solve problems, and we love to feel like we’re making a contribution to the world . Too much unstructured time can be stressful and depressing. When we don’t know what to do with ourselves, we give up.

The trick is to inject some creative tension into your life. The word tension gets a bad rap, but remember that it is structural tension that holds the keystone in every arch — and sexual tension is often the beginning of all kinds of wonderful things .

Think of a goal that frightens you a little bit, something that stirs you up, maybe even something that you’re pretty sure is impossible. Let it loom large in your mind. Connect with it. Feel the energetic relationship — the tension — between where you are now and where the goal is. Feel that energetic spoke of the net between you and that goal, and let that tension to pull you forward into taking one first step.

When you’ve taken one step, celebrate. It’s easy to brush aside first steps, especially when you believe that you really should be farther along already, but don’t. You did something, which is more than you did yesterday. Which is excellent. Be proud.

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Quit Buying Groceries at the Quickie Mart

To really get the benefit of this chapter you need to read it in completion (get your copy here.)

But I didn’t want to leave it out because even if you just go with this snippet it will help:

Chapter 12 – Quit Buying Groceries at the Quickie Mart

When people talk to me about not having enough time in their day, I usually find some combination of these misjudgments:

· not being realistic about how much time some tasks actually take

· not prioritizing activities, or allowing priorities to shift

· failing to think things through, not planning ahead

When you are not realistic with yourself about how much time something actually takes, you feel rushed. And when you fail to prioritize your activities, you end up spending way too much time on the wrong things and don’t have nearly enough time for the right things.

When you fail to plan ahead, you end up scrambling around at the last minute, and often the results are unsatisfactory.

For example, maybe you often don’t remember that you’ve got to make dinner until you’re on your way home, forcing you to grab whatever groceries you can find at the local Quickie Mart. Instead, take the time to put those responsibilities into your schedule right along with your other commitments. Too often your personal tasks end up being crammed into the corners of your day, and you then you are forced to rush, which just adds to your feelings of being overwhelmed.

Remember to account for transit time: getting stuck in traffic time, finding a parking place time and waiting for the elevator time. Failing to account for the time it takes to get from one place to another is a leading cause of pernicious lateness, and is one of the hallmarks of the permanently overwhelmed.

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